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Support Your Beautiful SOUL!

“Support your SOUL just by being YOU!”

What does your soul want? Your soul just wants to express itself. It wants to use its creativity. It wants to follow its divine plan to help you unleash your gifts that you brought with you here to Planet Earth.

How do we unlock this door to the soul?  It’s easier than you thinkโขโขโข

We throw away the key and we just be who we are. We get up each day and we ask ourselves who we are and what brings us JOY? And we follow that! We follow our hearts. We follow our BLISS and that, my friends, is how we throw away the key and cast aside any doubt.

We drop the insecurities and the expectations and we stop analyzing and worrying  if we are doing the right thing because there is no right thing. We are perfectly imperfect and came here exactly to be just that!

So I hope that you embrace the ease and grace of just letting YOU be YOU each and every day!

On another note I have included a quote from my spouse Don that he created today. You can see it below. It’s the one about Heaven on Earth. I have also attached a 2 minute audio clip to explain our thoughts about and around the quote and where it was inspired from for Don.

Don and I both like to write. Don moreso poetry and me well these types of blog posts.

Don and I also love to share our thoughts, ideas, and philosophies with each other. We do this through phone calls throughout the day as well as deep discussions on date night which as most of you know is Friday night for us. It’s very sacred to us. Sharing like this with another Human Being who is also creating their own Heaven on Earth is such a beautiful thing and I am very grateful for him.

I hope you enJOY everything presented here today from our hearts to yours and have a great day everyone! And here is the short audio clip.

Listen to Sunday Heaven on Earth.m4a by Maggie Holbik on #SoundCloud

Perfectly Imperfect
Quote by my spouse Don Perry: “You don’t go to Heaven. Heaven comes to you.

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Why Not UNchoose?

Maggie, no matter the temptation, you no longer think or say, “I’m anxious,” “I’m hurt,” or “I’m angry.” Because each of these feelings are choices, that can be unchosen, instead of reinforced. And you will be amazed,   The Universe This was my beautiful note from the Universe the other morning and I quite loved it.โ€ฆ

be you, Soul's Callings, Soulful Relfections

Align With Who You Are

“When you align with your soul’s calling opportunities start to present themselves”. Maggie Holbik

Flow. That is what comes to mind when I think of aligning with my soul and with who I am. When I re-member and connect with my divine self, I feel in alignment.

When we are in alignment, our internal and external energies can flow and lead us to those people, places and experiences that are a match to our higher calling.

Are you listening to the calling of your soul? I sure hope so. ๐Ÿ™‚

Blessings to all…

be free, be you

I Think the World is Ready for YOU!

A picture of Northern Lights with a Rumi Quote: ” Stop acting so small. You are the Universe in ecstatic motion.” Rumi

There are two things that I know and one is that we are here on earth to be who we are in all of our Glory. In fact, we are meant to excel at being who we are. Our uniqueness and individuality is supposed to be the way of it.

Why then do we dim down or hide?

And most often guess who we are really hiding from?

Ourselves!!!! We often keep ourselves hidden away, afraid to let the ‘real’ us out for fear that we are not adequate, or that people might see the ‘real’ us. HA HA HA. We are missing the very point!

As another quote goes:

โ€œWhen you realize how perfect everything is, you will tilt your head back and laugh at the sky.โ€

I think the world is ready for ‘us’. I think the world is ready for ‘me’ and I think the world is ready for ‘YOU” my friend.

In fact, I think the world needs us right now to really show up to the plate of life and be who we are meant to be. If not now, when?

The second thing I know to be true, is that change is a constant. Boy, don’t we know that these days? ๐Ÿ™‚

So that brings me back around to how we view change, or how we adjust and maneuver changes in our lives. For example, we can dig our feet into the ground and stamp our feet or we can dance with change like the waves dance in the ocean… to and fro… and adjusting as we go.

A picture of a large and beautiful rolling wave.

Here is an example of what I mean, just on a smaller scale. It is 5:57 am and I have been awake since about 3 am. I went to bed earlier than I normally do and woke up and couldn’t go back to sleep. But instead of fighting it and stressing about it, I am just enJOYing the time.

I watched a little Netflix, listened to a mediation and when I was still awake I thought I would get up and write. So here I am. Writing and in all my Glory being me expressing myself as a part of the Universe in motion and it feels GOOD. It feels really GOOD my friends because I am being ‘me’ and I am not fighting or arguing with ‘what is’ aka that I cannot sleep.

I am going with the rhythm of what is and I am not in resistance. And when we are not in resistance we are not in pain. ๐Ÿ™‚ Now that is a peaceful and JOYous place to be.

I hope whenever you are reading this that you be sure to make it an AMAZING day and that YOU, my friend, get your YOU dance on today and let the ‘REAL’ you out to play on this GLORIOUS day!

Oh and if you are reading this in the early am… Good Morning Beautiful! ๐Ÿ™‚

Isotonix Turn Down …. what I am sipping on as I write this blog post and I’m getting sleepy… looking forward to going back to bed for a delicious sleep in!
Authenticity, be free, be you

Wear That Silly Hat Dammit!

Have you ever worn a silly hat?

I ran across this Facebook memory from Oct. 1, 2013, and I must admit it made me cry for a number of reasons. It is about my daughter who was 7 at the time…. but really it’s all about life.

Here was the post from 2013:

So this morning Sivanna and I were cuddling in bed and talking about how one of her teachers told her it was disrespectful to wear her pink hat that she had so excitedly prepared for her outfit for picture day, but that she was ok with it. And then we started talking about what I was doing today. I explained that I was giving a talk to people on how to do more things that make them happy like wearing hats that they like or silly hats, or spending more time in nature, etc. Then I say “Well it’s time to get up” and she says “MOM you just said we should do what makes us happy and I want more cuddles!” Needless to say, we had more cuddles.

I thought this was worth sharing here for a few reasons.

I often think that at the end of our lives we are going to wish that we had lightened up more, wore those silly hats, tried painting pictures, wrote that book, or tried that Thai recipe. ๐Ÿ™‚

Whatever, I bet we will wish that we did more of those things that we want to do or try silly or not.

I also think we will wish that we didn’t follow so many made-up rules and let go of our fears to express our true and authentic self. This post reminded me of how people can get thwarted in life when they just want to express themselves. We really are just spiritual beings having a human experience and we should be free to be who we want to be.

So let’s not wait ๐Ÿ™‚ Let’s try things, let’s explore, let’s wear silly hats, a get a tattoo if we want. ๐Ÿ™‚

And as for the cuddles, wow, just wow, that one is making me cry right now. Sure brings it all home doesn’t it?

Have a great day everyone!

be you, Self Esteem, self-love

Is Your Soul Knocking At The Door??

“What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us”

Ralph Waldo Emerson

People are waking up. People are allowing their true potential to rise up and to meet the occasion of life and it is wonderful to see.

In my virtual travels and with conversations I have with clients and friends and family, I really see this shift happening. I think we are starting to really understand that our whole purpose on earth is to ‘be who we are’.

And that my friends is and awesome and beautiful thing. ๐Ÿ™‚

I also see digital marketers teaching this to people. They use words like authenticity, be who you are, be audacious, be bold, be unique, but basically they are all saying the same thing:

โ™ฅ “BE YOU!” โ™ฅ


I will leave you with this thought to ponder on today. How can you be more of YOU? What passions and ideas are lurking inside of your heart? What expressions are you wanting to release?

Do you have words that want to get out and put on paper? Are there things you want your children to know about you and your life before you leave this earth. Do you want to leave a legacy that shows the path of your spirit while you were here on earth.

Is your artistic side of you probing at your heart and wants to be released?

Is your own soul knocking at the door of your life saying let me in or let me out? ๐Ÿ™‚

What about that funky hat? Want to wear it today? Do It!

Do It All My Friends, Do It All!

Because if not now, when?

Have a great day everyone!

be you, love, self-love

๐ผ ๐’ฎ๐‘’๐“ƒ๐’น ๐’ดโ๐“Š ๐ฟ๐Ÿ’—๐“‹๐‘’ ๐’ถ๐“ƒ๐’น ๐’ฎ๐“Š๐“…๐“…๐ŸŒธ๐“‡๐“‰ ๐’ฏโ™ก๐’น๐’ถ๐“Ž….

“A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval”. Mark Twain

WHO is your biggest obstacle in your life?

WHO stops YOU from being YOU?

Is it YOU?

I think we are all guilty of this sometimes. The greatest freedom in life is the freedom to be who we are.

I was thinking this morning a kind of crazy but fun thought. What if we saw ourselves as a slow cooker or crock pot. Just get up ‘set it and forget it’. Meaning get up, be who we are exactly as we are, and off we go to en๐‰๐Ž๐˜ our day.

I love to write about these things so I can remind myself about concepts like this. Maggie, just be YOU.

I have found that the more ME I am, the easier my life has gotten. I am a work in progress. I take baby steps and I keep going. I forgive, I forget, I love, and I learn compassion as I go. I learn to be compassionate with myself and with others.

A baby taking a step ‘baby steps’

The more insecurities I have the more I am learning about humankind. WE are human. We make mistakes. We learn. We keep going. There is nowhere to ‘get to’ and as Ram Dass so eloquently stated “We are just walking each other home”.

So my friends, whatever you need today, I am sending. I am sending strength to those who need that. I am sending Love to you and to me! I am sending thoughts of beauty and encouragement. I am sending you encouragement to be YOU and to LOVE YOU! You are enough and you are AMAZING just as you are. And by the way, you look so beautiful just being all human like like you are. ๐Ÿ™‚

Whatever it is you need right now to feel stronger, supported and loved, know that these very words are infused with all of that and more……

๐ฟโค๐“‹๐‘’ ๐‘€๐’ถ๐‘”๐‘”๐’พ๐‘’

Various pictures of people supporting each other by hand holding and also a group of women resting their heads on each others shoulders…. like a train of support.
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Once Again Just ๐ต๐‘’ ๐’ด๐Ÿ’™๐’ฐโฃ

“Your life’s purpose is far more a function of being yourself, than making clever choices”. Mike Dooley

It is so simple. Just be who we are fully and JOYfully. Be CareFREE!

What if? What if we just showed up fully and gloriously today being who we are? Being YOU? Being ME? Being the YOU that you were meant to be?

Sounds good to me? ๐Ÿ™‚ You?

Have MARVELOUS day everyone!

๐ต๐‘’ ๐’ด๐Ÿ’™๐’ฐโฃ ๐ต๐‘’ ๐’ด๐Ÿ’™๐’ฐโฃ ๐ต๐‘’ ๐’ด๐Ÿ’™๐’ฐโฃ ๐ต๐‘’ ๐’ด๐Ÿ’™๐’ฐโฃ ๐ต๐‘’ ๐’ด๐Ÿ’™๐’ฐโฃ ๐ต๐‘’ ๐’ด๐Ÿ’™๐’ฐโฃ

be you, self-love

Perfectly Imperfect

It will never be perfect, but perfect is overrated. Perfect is boring.”

Tina Fey

Perfect is indeed boring and what a relief! We need only be ourselves in our perfectly imperfect ways. I like it!

Just wake up everyday being all us just the way we are.

Woo hoo. Sounds good to me ๐Ÿ™‚ What about you? Are you in and all in?

โ™ฅ Let’s do this imperfect thing. ๐Ÿ™‚ โ™ฅ

be you

Begin Today…..

Just another day of YOU being YOU. Go for it! Shine on…….